I know a married man whose relationship philosophy includes, “Just say what people what to hear.” He believes that being honest can be hurtful or embarrass someone (especially himself). He claims “honesty is highly overrated.” This justifies his surreptitious sexual relationships.

Denying the value of honest communication is a wonderful defense against letting anyone in to your heart and soul, a way to remain aloof, invulnerable and inscrutable. It’s also useful for avoiding confrontation.

What is honesty? It’s defined as “free of deceit and untruthfulness.” It’s communicating what you know and are doing, that is relevant to the person with whom you are communicating. READ MORE >>>